Tuesday, December 15, 2015


Are you single? Do you have friends that are married and finds it difficult to flow with them? or do hate yourself because you are single?

I have a Liberating News to share with you! Singlehood is the state of being unmarried. 

Singlehood is a stage that all must pass through before get  finally joined in holy matrimony even Adam pass through this stage, before God looked at him and said, it is not good for a man to be alone, let us made him a help meet.

As a single lady, embrace this stage with maximium power and maximize it well.  A time will come that you will leave this unique stage to another blissful experience that will last till death do you part.

I am speaking on the topic: The ultimate power of singlehood and  I will gladly welcome contributions from my fellow ministers that are married. Thank you!

If you are single and all that you do is crying your eyes out because you desperately want to get married, the pressure is just too much, or because all your friends are married then you’ve waste a lot of your quality time! Time you should have utilize for something positive!

At this golden stage, everything revolves around you. You are in charge, the captain of the ship! You form the rules and regulations, and can change or adjust them to get the best out of whatever you are doing. You are you. Just you and God! The best time to serve God!

This is when and where you lay the foundation of a glorious married life! Explore the world but in a God fearing manner. be positive in all that you do. You develop yourself , your talent, gift and potentials at this unique stage. I call it the moment of self discovery and training! No distractions, drama and unwanted solutions.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 it is written, there is time for everything.

There was a purpose God created Adam before Eve. Singlehood is time for dominion, like I said before, you are in charge, you take control, learn how to take responsibilities. This is when you work hard to enlarge your coast; it is when to develop yourself physically and spiritually for the things of God.

 You don’t get married because you want someone to lay your burdens, all your troubles on. Are you getting married to become a liability? Women are help meet! If you do not develop yourself now that you are single, when will you do that? Is it during your first pregnancy or when you have delivered three technologies kids that demand for your time more than your husband? children of this age are so demanding, and the kind of questions they will ask you? you will have to think twice before opening your mouth to answer, because correct answers to their questions determines your freedom from another questions.

You want to be fruitful, you want to multiply and be replenish in all your endeavours? Please develop yourself! At this stage, you think fast and act fast without any distraction on your mind. Focus is the key word, you are determine at all cost to make it in life because the Grace of God is there to back you up. That when you have accept Jesus as your Lord and savior.

He says, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.“(2 Corinthians 12:9).

Once you are married, it takes God’s Grace for you to serve with all your heart, and not time because there are times house chores will eat up your appointment with God, Mid-week services, choir practice( that’s if  you’ve finished with your triplets and husband) and Bible study. And if you are a working class, a career woman you know what that means! To even pray at midnight, Heaven must attached three angels to you; lest you fall and break your neck and the devil make a caricature of you!

At this stage focus on God and do not do anything to comprise your faith. This not time to start jumping from Dick, Tom and Harry. That won’t take you anywhere; instead it delays your marriage, because it  will then needs God’s intervention to deliver you from all the soul ties you've engage yourself in. 

soul ties can be formed through premarital affairs and the devil of course will use this to his advantage. when you engage in this kind of act as a single lady you instantly defiled yourself. you loose focus and that's why a lot of single ladies still have feelings, they are still attracted to the men they hve broke up with even after many years, some even when they are married, because a demonic spirit was attached to them during that act because it was ungodly.

Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are. 1Corinthians 3:16-17

For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.” 1corinthians 6:20

While developing yourself open up your heart for love but do not do anything funny without enquiring from God. That was David’s key to success! (1Samuel 30:8)
Stop pursuing and begging men to marry you. When it time for you to get marry, you will.

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Genesis 2:18, 24
 The Bible says , Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD (Proverbs 18:22) .  

 If you don’t discover yourself and a man finds you, you are not a good thing, you are a liability and that where disaster crawls in, you are not doing the responsibility of a help meet. do  you think is that easy to find a wife? and finally you’ve been found, you have absolutely nothing to offer?  Automatically, there will be no favour for the innocent man. Is that what need you want in your marriage? Don’t you know that you are unique, rise up like the daughter of Zion and shine for thy light is come and the glory of the Lord is upon you.

And that why there are problems in a lot of marriage, fighting every day and what follow is divorce and you will so proud going to a lawyer, when you should be ashamed of yourself.

And the women that have by the grace of God developed themselves, I mean the real help meet, do not in any way obey their husbands, they feel they have arrived, because they are wealthy. What a world! Is this the will of God in marriage?

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Ephesians 5:22

‘Married but single’
Why do some women feel so ‘lonely’ in marriage?  This could be worse than a night mare for any married woman.  The answer is very simple, they never develop themselves spiritually, emotionally and physically.  They felt they knew all and now that they are actually in it, what their eyes have seen, the mouth cannot say.

Singles that have married friends please know your limit, don’t cross your boundary. Do not misuse your friend’s trust.

Are you married? How often do you sit your single sisters and friends to talk some sense to them? You can’t? So that they won’t know what you are going through? That means you are not influencing them positively. 

With the help of God, you can, they need those guides to help them tomorrow!  Foundation is the key to a blissful marriage.

Therefore whosoever heareth these saying of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:
And the rain decended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.  Matthew 7:24-25

Today I am praying for you, all the singles and married, may God forgive all your iniquities for His name’s sake, I lift up my voice and cry for God to have mercy upon you,  let there be a divine directions in all that you do, in anything that you will do  which will not give glory to God let the Divine Presence of God stop you.

  I declare speed in all that you do, stagnation is not your portion, fruitfulness will be your portion, Receive spiritual eyes in all that you do, every evil mask, veil covering your beauty, successes, joy, happiness, peace.  Today I unveil them by power of God, I command Holy ghost fire to consume them, every curse and handwriting against your life I hear the Bible says in Colossians 2:15 that Jesus have blot out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us, and took it out of the way, nailing it to his cross; And having spoiled principalities and powers, he made a shew of them openly, triumphing over them in it. I declare you are free!

Jesus, it's me again Lucy, thy servant, you have been using me to put everlasting joy in the lives of singles and married women, singles that were believed marriage ceremony can never take place, but you put the devil to shame, you are the same God today, yesterday and forever, you changeth not, I lift up my voice and cry as many that will visit this blog and read this Rhema may their lives never be the same. I declare restoration to broken marriages, Holy Spirit please locates them. Extend your peace unto them like a River!

Let your Divine presence go with them for Glorious manifestation. Look down from heaven, and behold from the habitation of thy holiness and of thy glory: where is thy zeal and thy strength, the sounding of thy bowels and of thy mercies toward us? Are they restrained? Doubtless thou art our father. Thank you for honouring and glorifying your name Jesus!  I sealed this prayer with the Blood of Jesus.

 For I pray with thanksgiving in Jesus’ name, Amen.

feel free to ask questions  
we appreciate your comments and please tell  your friends about this blog and you will be bless!
The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise. Prov.11:30.
So mightily grew the word of God and prevailed. Act. 19:20
Thank you!


  1. Really a must read for single ladies. Good one Lucy!

    1. Thank you Naija Mom! so good of you to stop by, it been quite long!

      stay blessed!

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    1. I Pray for God's Grace to hold you, envelop you with His divine presence in all that you are doing! keep the faith!

      you are highly favour!

  3. you said it all! the singlehood stage should be a stage prepares herself for the task ahead,its a time to build yourself spiritually,physically(making sure all your vital organs are injtact and ready for reproduction.its a time to get prepared,like a friend even before she met her man she was already buying all what she will need in her future home.tho i didnt prepare while i was single but the little time i have i have been able to build myself up,prepare my sef for the blessed children God is bringing my way,learning and becoming a virtuous woman for my husband,so far God has been faithful.
    so singles utilise your time well cos you mght not have time like me to build yourself


    1. Thank you very much Minister BMF for this wonderful contribution, God will reward you. Amen!

    2. Yes ma


      Thanks Pastor


    3. Chi love where have you been? don't make me look for you again please.

      Compliment of the season!

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    1. God bless you for buying the Truth. may your total obedience releases strength to you! Let the Divine Presence of God envelop you in all the steps you take. Amen!

  5. Thanks Lucy, this really will go a long way.

    1. wow! good to have you here Mimi. Receive Grace to achieve all your goals in Jesus' name, Amen.

      we hope to see more of you, Remain blessed!

  6. Nice work here.


    1. Welcome Honest Boy! I believe as your name is, so are you.(*Smiles*)

      compliment of the season!

  7. wow! this is a great and inspirational piece.I am single & will prepare well for marriage. I always tell singles that this is the best time to serve God, once you are married, it takes God’s Grace to serve with all your heart.
    Compliment of the season!

    1. Thanks Minister Temitope for knowing the Truth and also keeping it to your heart by doing it and telling youths too. God will reward you abundantly. More Grace!

      compliment of the season!!!

  8. Beautiful piece
    Wonderful advice.
    Thanks for sharing this to the single ladies.
    I'm single and smiling.. Hehehe


  9. May that smiles never ceased in your life,Amen!

    compliment of the season my youth's President!

  10. This is a good one pastor plus I love our blog's new look.


  11. Lovely. God bless you richly, woman of God. You really inspire me

  12. You nailed it here Lucy. I really do hope that the singles will take heed to this write-up and do the needful.


  13. Lucy your head full o
    This is just everything